I hate that my default for a lot of things is saying “I guess.” It’s as if I have no backbone and will go along with whatever like a pet. Hey, if anybody is into that, sure, I can be your man, but in my mind it doesn’t fit into the image of a gentleman that is decisive, consciously active, and desirable. My grandma, who I lived with for 5 years, did say that I would probably end up with a strong woman, which I interpret as a woman who knows what she wants and will go after it without too much hesitation. Being overly impulsive is usually a signal that the person has not thought their actions through, so that isn’t good, but saying I guess? … It’s a signal that I’m so airy that I just fall into action lest I stay completely still.